Saturday, June 7, 2014
Cancer/No Cancer Experience: Lesson #1
Our journey with Cancer/Not Cancer was one of those "pull" back experiences that shouted "Life requires assistance and will be different from this point on." In the next few blogs, I will attempt to share each of the "pull" back occasions in order to highlight a few that may impact your journey through life as well.
"Even if you don't need anything, let people do something for you and your family" were the words spoken by a dear friend (whose wife is a cancer survivor) at the beginning of our journey. Even though, like most, we are more comfortable being on the helping others end, Lisa and I have been appreciative of the support and comfort we have received from friends and family. Even so, we were not prepared for the level of extravagance poured out on our family.
We received gifts of
...advice on treatment
...again, a lot of prayer
Our existence indeed required assistance from others. We are so thankful and blown away by the overwhelming amount of support received over the last few weeks.
Extravagance is the word Lisa and I use to describe our experience of gift receiving. And the recieving left us with two, won't go away, questions and one resolution that has impacted and continues to impact the future direction of our family.
Question#1: Are we living a fiscally responsible lifestyle that supports extravagant giving? Yes, we can and will continue to give our tithe, our resources and time, but the key word here is extravagant. We are wanting to keep our giving to receiving ratio in balance. We want any imbalance to be on the giving side.
Question #2: Are we living a fiscally responsible lifestyle that supports extravagant moments with family? We take vacations and have family time, but there were moments in our "pull" back that I really wanted to pack up the family and "refresh" for a day or two. However, our financial responsibilities have a lot of our money committed before it is spent (I realize many of you reading this often find themselves in the same boat). I did not like that feeling.
Resolution: We will explore and courageously make fiscal responsibilities adjustments in order to give and live extravagantly.
After the "pull" back book moment, I went to the eye doctor expecting to get a prescription for contacts/glasses. What I received was a "reader" prescription (actually, my doctor told me to go to a pharmacy and pick up a few pairs to throw around the home and office). I was ready for a full blown contact/glasses prescription to find I only needed "readers." My existence with the assistance of readers gives me the ability to read books without the "pull" back and it is awesome!
I have no idea, at this point, what level of correction to our fiscal vision these questions and our resolution will call for. Regardless, we know something will be different. We are seeing things real clear these days.